Wednesday, June 27, 2007

Red, White and Brownie Fruit Pizza
Prep Time: 25 min ; Start to Finish: 2 hr 35 min
Makes: 12 servings Nutrition Information
Fresh berries--or any fresh fruit--and a creamy filling top a chocolaty crust made so easily with Pillsbury® refrigerated brownie batter.

2 rolls (16.5 oz each) Pillsbury® refrigerated traditional chocolate fudge brownie batter
1 package (8 oz) cream cheese, softened
1/3 cup sugar
1/2 teaspoon vanilla
2 cups sliced fresh strawberries
1 cup fresh blueberries
1 cup fresh raspberries
1/2 cup apple jelly

1 . Heat oven to 350°F (325°F for dark, nonstick pan). Grease 12-inch pizza pan, or spray with cooking spray. Spread both rolls brownie batter evenly in bottom of pan to form crust.
2 . Bake 16 to 20 minutes. Cool completely, about 1 hour.
3 . In small bowl, beat cream cheese, sugar and vanilla with electric mixer on medium speed until fluffy. Spread mixture over cooled crust. Arrange fruit over cream cheese. Stir jelly until smooth. Brush over fruit. Refrigerate until chilled, at least 1 hour. Cut into wedges. Store covered in refrigerator.
FINALLY! Under 100 days to go until this baby is born! Maybe it is the summer heat & humidity or maybe it is just my impatient nature....but it feels like this pregnancy has been going on now for years! ugh. I shouldn't be in a hurry though - we still have our house to sell so we can move into the new one before someone else snatches it up from under us...and then I still have to paint, buy some furniture, make a nursery for this son of mine. LOTS to do! And I can only seem to muster the energy to do something until 1 p.m....and then narcolepsy-like symptoms hit.

I'm so excited for this baby - but also so relieved it is my last. I'm not a glowing pregnant woman. I'm a whining, hot, uncomfortable, impatient pregnant type. Not fun for anyone I"m afraid.

But....only 99 days to go!

Tuesday, June 26, 2007

Sharing her stickers with her baby brother...






Sunday, June 24, 2007

Friday, June 22, 2007

A little bedtime read...



Bowling for Soup - High School Never Ends

I love this song - and how true it is!

I envy the women that love their pregnant bodies.....I am NOT one of them.

Wednesday, June 20, 2007

Toddler Book of the Week...
Where's My Teddy? by Jez Alborough


Here's what's for dinner tonight:

Hearty Italian Sandwiches
makes 8 servings

1 1/2 lbs. ground beef
1 1/2 lbs. bulk Italian Sausage
2 large onions, chopped
2 large green peppers, chopped
2 large sweet red peppers, choppes
1 tsp. salt
1 tsp. pepper
Shredded Monterey Jack cheese
8 sandwich rolls

1. In skillet brown beef & sausage. Drain.
2. Place one-third onions and pepeprs in slow cooker. Top w/half of meat mixture. Repeat layers. Sprinkle w/salt & pepper.
3. Cover. Cook on low 6 hours or until vegetables are tender.
4. With a slotted spoon, serve about 1 cup mixture on each roll. Top w/cheese.

Note: For some extra flavor, add a spoonful of salsa to ea. roll efore topping w/cheese. I plan to put them open-faced on a baking sheet and toast them for a few minutes in the oven. mmm.

Recipe courtesy of Fix It and Forget About It Cookbook, Feasting with your slow cooker

I'm going to serve these with canteloupe.

Sunday, June 17, 2007

Happy Father's Day, Daddy! We are so lucky to have such a great man to call husband and father - you make us feel loved, safe, secure and happy. What more could a girl want?

Thursday, June 14, 2007

http://urbandalehomeforsale.blogspot.com/
Sock It!
Try this tip from Heloise: "I like to put on old socks, spray a bit of cleaning fluid on them, and slide my feet along the baseboard, sticking my toes into corners to get at that hard-to-reach dust. It's good exercise - and the cleaning gets done."


Get real, Heloise! The only "fun" way to clean the floors is to hire someone else to do it!
OPINION:

It has ALWAYS been my opinion that The Des Moines Register needs some serious competition. I think it would improve the overall quality (and by quality I mean unbiased journalism that is relevant to readers) of the content. Today I called for classified ad rates for a SMALL for-sale-by-owner or Open House listing. Minimum cost? $150...and that's not statewide coverage. Bring on the competition!

Wednesday, June 13, 2007

Toddler Book Recommendation

THIRSTY BABY, by Catherine Ann Cullen

Cute story with sing-song rhyme tells the story of how every time the baby gets his drink, he finishes it with a "sip and a sup" - and still wants MORE! This is a great pick for a young toddler. Check it out at your local library!
We made an offer on a house last night...and it was accepted! Now we really need a buyer for our house...and a new house for the seller. Please if you know anyone looking for a well-maintained, under $200K, 3-bedroom home in a great neighborhood and school district...with a kick-butt kitchen, garage, deck and yard....please send em my way!

Tuesday, June 12, 2007

I spent over 30 minutes this morning digging for receipts I had set aside for returns at Kohl's and Target. I searched and searched...nothing. Finally I gave up, heading to Target with the one return I DID have a receipt for.

Except when I got there, turns out I had the wrong receipt. But I thankfully encountered a helpful sales associate who told me that if she swiped the debit card I paid with and then scan the item I was returning, they can tell in their system if I had purchased it w/in the last 90 days. So I could do my returns w/out the receipts! And credit it nicely back onto my debit card. Nice! ...but scary how intelligent their spend-tracking is! So, Target...if you know exactly what I'm buying - where are my diaper coupons then? Sheesh!
Darn you, Pillsbury! Why do you have to make things sound sooo good?
Quick Peanut Butter Cup-Brownie Cupcakes
Prep Time: 10 min ; Start to Finish: 1 hr 35 min
Makes: 10 cupcakes

Nutrition Information

Combine two classic treats--brownies and peanut butter cups--into a show-stopping dessert made easily with a roll of Pillsbury® brownie batter from the refrigerated section.

1 roll (16.5 oz) Pillsbury® refrigerated traditional chocolate fudge brownies

10 miniature chocolate-covered peanut butter cup candies, unwrapped

1 . Heat oven to 350°F. Place paper baking cup in each of 10 regular-size muffin cups.

2 . Divide brownie batter evenly among muffin cups, filling each 2/3 full. Press 1 candy into batter in each cup so half of candy shows above batter.
3 . Bake 23 to 28 minutes or until brownies are set. DO NOT OVERBAKE. Cool 30 minutes before serving.

Sunday, June 10, 2007

Confession.....I love celebrity gossip. (oh, the shame!). And one of my new favorite stops when I have a minute or two is http://www.babble.com/CS/blogs/famecrawler/default.aspx

Check it out...you'll be hooked in no time. But for the record...I also try to stay current on real news. =-)
My kids don't have access to a video iPod...but if they did I would so go here:

free Sesame Street downloads available on iTunes. Dr. office waiting rooms? Waiting to get the minivan's oil changed? Temper tantrum when you've just entered the grocery store? SOLVED! Lazy parenting? perhaps...but did I mention problem solved?

Saturday, June 09, 2007

Attention scrappers! I have found the perfect method for storing and transporting fibers, brads, eyelets, tags and more small storage worthy items....for a FRACTION of the cost. And once again..the solution is found at the home improvement store.

Check this out! The Black & Decker Workmate series Small Parts Box. Now tell me this isn't perfect...and now...the price...around TEN BUCKS! Can you believe it?!@#

The holder box comes with carrying handle, but it works just as well on its side with the organizers facing out for easy retrieval:
Each organizer comes with twenty dividers, and you can divide the organizer into 29 compartments (you’ll need 22 dividers for that, though):

The holder has guide rails for each organizer, so they are not free stacked on top of each other:
Scrapbook with MS Word…
Jun 9th, 2007 by etceteraetcetera

paper piecing
Use clip art images as templates to create paper-pieced page accents (above). On the program menu, select Insert, then Picture and Clip Art to add an image to a document. Size the image by dragging your mouse at the corner. (Do not make your image larger than a standard 8 1/2 x 11 page for compatibility with standard printers.) Print a copy, cut it apart and use the pieces as templates when tracing on colored paper.

twisted text
Curve, twist, bend and loop text for titles using Word Art. Choose Insert, Picture, Word Art and select a style you like. Type your text and click OK to create the art. Use the tools on the Word Art toolbar to change its colors, bend it into shape, and then print it. Note: This technique works best with short titles or sentences. The effect does not work well on long paragraphs of journaling.

fill-in page titles
Print an outline of any font for a fill-in title with a few simple steps. First, choose the landscape paper orientation (under File, Page Setup) and type a page title. Next choose Format, Font to select the font style, then color and size you wish. Under the same menu, click Outline. Print the title and fill in letters with chalk, pens or other media for a custom effect.

watermark images
Use Word’s picture editing tool to enlarge and wash out an image ã for use as a page accent. Add your image to a Word document (Insert, Picture, Clip Art), select it and, from the Picture toolbar, choose Color, Washout (in some versions you’ll choose Image Control, Watermark instead). Use a single watermark image to accent a page, or repeat for a background.

download clip art images
Use the Microsoft Design Gallery online (dgl.microsoft.com) to expand your clip art collection. Find specific images by typing a keyword and selecting the type of image you want. Click any image displayed to see a larger-sized preview and click the “Search by Style” link to locate other images drawn in a similar style. On a PC, the clip art should download automatically. For Macintosh users, it can be a little more difficult. Use Office 2001 or later versions for successful downloading on a Mac.

custom journaling blocks
The tricky part about computer journaling can be making sure the text fits the amount of space you have on your page. Make a custom-sized journaling block to take out the guesswork. First draw a text box to fit the amount of space you have (Insert, Text Box, then click and drag to create it). Type your journaling inside the box. Increase the line spacing a little to get a less computer-generated look or to fill the box more evenly. To do this, highlight the text and choose Format, Font and click the Character Spacing tab. From the Spacing dropdown list, choose Expanded, then type in the number you wish to expand the text by.

wrap-around text frames
Make text wrap around a photo or other image with this technique. Draw four text boxes (Insert, Text Box) and position one on each side of the image around a space the size of your photo. Use Format, Text Direction to rotate the text in the two “side” boxes. Type text into each box so it wraps around the photo space. You may have to use your space bar or center the text in the box to get it to wrap evenly. Use the Fill Color and Line Color tools to color the boxes and, when printed, mount your photo in your text frame. A word of warning: some patience and practice is required for success with this more-complicated technique.

creating border collages
Create your own border art by scanning one or more photos or clip art images and adding them to a Word document. To import a photo or image of your own, it must first be saved on a disk or on your computer as a JPEG file.

Choose Insert, Picture, From File, then locate the image and click Insert. Size and crop images using the Picture toolbar tools, then overlap them to form a long strip to use as a page border. For 12 x 12 pages, create a custom paper size (File, Page Setup, then select paper size) before assembling your collage. Print using a sheet of light cardstock trimmed to fit your printer’s paper path. While most printers can handle longer 11 x 17 sheets, the width must be 8 1/2 inches or less.

create a calendar
Calendar pages are handy to record milestones for any age or to document of the events in a hectic month. Create one or more month-per-page calendars by downloading Word’s Calendar Wizard. Find this on the Microsoft Web site at http://search.officeupdate.microsoft.com/TemplateGallery/ct133.asp. You can also go to File, New, Other Documents, Calendar Wizard for more information. It’s simple to use and will create calendar pages for just about any time in the last (or next) hundred years. See below for an example.

handmade stickers
You’ll never be lost for stickers you love when you create them yourself in Word. Purchase sticker paper at craft or office supply stores from companies such as Avery, Epson or Fuji. It is also easy to find and purchase sticker paper online from a variety of sites (try invent-it.com or paper-paper.com). To make the stickers, choose Tools, Envelopes and Labels, Labels tab. Click Options to select your paper’s special code number and click OK, then New Document. Insert clip art to each sticker outline before printing them.

Friday, June 08, 2007

Well, we finally did it....the sign is now in the yard.
FOR SALE BY OWNER!!!

My friend, Cheryl is selling a riding lawn mower. $300/OBO. If you are interested, let me know and I'll pass you her contact info. Here's a pic of the mower.





If I include photos of the outside of the house, the yard, the exterior of the garage/workshop, the kitchen, the living room and the dining room...do I need any other room photos on the For Sale By Owner information sheet for the info tube? I want people to have a reason to come inside to see more...but I'm not sure if I've included enough of what people want to know. Opinions? (scroll down for pics of the kitchen and dining room...I posted those at an earlier date).


Thursday, June 07, 2007


SHWEW! What a day! Today was carpet stretching/cleaning day...yet another step toward the for sale by owner sign in the front yard. The carpet guy arrived at 8:30 a.m. He has some sort of fancy machinery in his carpet-cleaning magic van that he runs into the house via hoses....fine...but today the humidity felt like 10,000 lbs. sitting on top of me...and because he needed the door open so his hoses could run into the living room...well...it was pregnancy HELL today!

That, combined with Bailey & I trying to keep Lauren corraled in the basement and out of the carpet guy's way and OFF the clean carpet...ugh. We finally gave up and took her across the street to the neighbor's trampoline...she and Bailey had a BLAST!

When we returned, here's what we found....NO STAINS! Tomorrow night the furniture comes back inside. I highly recommend the carpet service we used. Commander Carpet Care (www.commandercarpetcare.com). They were professional, friendly, competent, helpful and the bill EXACTLY matched the quote we were given. Very reasonable.


Because we had to move virtually everything for the carpet cleaners, I had the computer unplugged all day. (WITHDRAWAL!!!) Not the best timing, considering I had just posted roughly 10 billion items on Craig's List (http://desmoines.craigslist.org/bab/) just the day before. So already behind on replying to interested buyers.


But no time to hook up the computer, because off we go to Bailey's softball game...the first of many in the end of season tournament.
























But after getting back online tonight and going through the 60+ emails I received today, I began reading today's posts from some of my favorite blogs. To my surprise, I found that I had won a $10 gift certificate to Heather Ann Designs (http://www.heatheranndesigns.com/). And just for playing a fun baby-name-guessing game on my virtual friend's blog. Thanks, Heather!

Tomorrow brings an even busier day filled with more cleaning so I can get the final room pics I need for the house flyer. Wish me luck!




Wednesday, June 06, 2007

While searching Flickr for baby boy nursery decor ideas, I stumbled upon this picture.

Are they JOKING?! Now I'd like to believe that the name is at least pronounced differently than it appears...but does it really even matter? The poor baby's name is spelled to look like DEE-MON. I guess no matter what name we pick for our baby boy - or nor matter what color we paint his room...we come out winners.

Tuesday, June 05, 2007

I'm purging baby girl clothes this week. Lots and LOTS of adorable baby girl clothes! I'm posting them on the Des Moines Craig's List under baby items...so check em out! I posted a bunch tonight - but there'll be more all week long. Everything from newborn up to 24 months. Lots of brand names, like Baby Gap, Children's Place, Carter's, Oshkosh, Tommy Hilfiger and more. Check it out...help me purge so we can make room for BABY BOY CLOTHES!!!

Here's a sample of what I've posted so far...go check it out!



Sometimes doing the right thing is SOOO much harder than doing the wrong thing, isn't it? Today I post something sad for me and my family. Today I am setting into action a reality we have tried to deny over and over again. Today we begin trying to find a better family for our dog, Sadie. Sure, we could just dump her back at the shelter, which is what we are supposed to do, but because we love her, we want to find the perfect home for her...not just hope someone appropriate finds her at a shelter - just feels way too cruel. Read on to fully understand the situation..
Dog Information:
Name: Sadie
Sex: Spay Female
Breed: Border Collie Mix
Color: Black with white patches on chest
Age: Approximately 2.5 yrs
Hair: Medium


Personality:
Sadie is an active, fun-loving, SMART female Border Collie mix. Very family-oriented and full of energy. Loves to run, go on walks, play, fetch her rope and receive affection. She is eager to please her owners!

Location: Urbandale, Iowa

Tricks:
* Sit, Lie Down, Stay

* Shake, fetches rope

Sadie’s Story:
Sadie is a GREAT dog. We adopted her when she was a puppy and she was labeled as a “lab mix” but it quickly became clear she is more Border Collie than any other breed. We love her so much that we know she deserves a family better-suited for her. Consistent with her breed, she is a high-energy dog who loves to run and jump (think Frisbee-catching, obstacle course type of dog). But with a rapidly-growing family, we just don’t have the time/energy to give her what she needs…which is a lot of playing, running….mental stimulation. Also consistent with her breed, she is VERY SMART! She is very good with the kids….”herds” the little ones sometimes…but has never shown aggression toward the kids. She does bark when strangers come to the door (especially the Schwan man)…but that’s where it ends with her.

With other dogs she is definitely submissive – no pack leader here.
She has been spayed and after her rabies shot this month she is up-to-date on everything, including bordatella (kennel cough).

Instead of turning her back into the shelter, it is our desire to find the perfect home for her. Because we care for her, we want to do everything on our part to find her a family that would be a really good fit.

If you would like to meet Sadie to see if she would be a good fit for your family, please leave me a comment and we'll arrange a visit.


Yes, indeed - doing what is best can really suck. =-(


Spring in Full Bloom! Here is a lily I planted last fall (I think it is a lily anyway - ha).


Monday, June 04, 2007

Move over caulk...there's a new favorite "getting ready to sell the house" item.....


And below is a picture of my child labor putting it into action...

Meal planning sucks. I don't like it. How do I know if I'm going to be in the mood for spaghetti on Tuesday when I'm writing the plan on Sunday? But, like it or not, it is something I really should be doing....something that will save us money. And THAT is something I'm going to have to work on so we can comfortably afford a new house payment (have I mentioned we are getting our house ready to sell? ha.)

Anyway - I struggle with meal ideas...especially since I"m trying to work my way through the pantry/fridge. Lunch ideas are the worst. So, as embarrassing as some of these choices may be, I'm posting them. They don't seem very healthy - and they don't seem very creative...but I think I"m not alone with these types of meals. Please feel free to share your meal ideas - better or worse!

Monday lunch: Chicken nuggets, Schwan's Quik Taters, Yogurt
Monday dinner: Hamburger/Rice Casserole, peas, watermelon

Tuesday lunch: Cold meat sandwiches, chips, carrot sticks
Tuesday dinner: Spaghetti

Wednesday lunch: left-over spaghetti
Wednesday dinner: Pancakes & bacon - served with fruit side

Thursday lunch: Hamburger Helper, fruit cup
Thurday dinner: Tuna Melts

Friday lunch: Mac & Cheese & Hot Dogs
Friday dinner: Pizza

Wednesday, May 30, 2007

Dining room? Check! 9 more rooms to go before we can stick the FOR SALE BY OWNER sign in the yard - yahoo! Today we had the gutters cleaned and set up an appointment for carpet cleaning. I'm trying not to think about the money going out - since I'm an HGTV addict, I realize it is necessary in order for the money to come in. And, if anyone is actually reading this and looking at the picture - yes that is the same plant that was in the kitchen picture. Taking suggestions on what to put on the dining room table instead come Open House time. Ideas anyone??? (affordable ideas, that is).
ATTENTION Mothers of Pre-Teen Girls! Limited Too now has their swimsuits (most of them anyway) on sale for 40% off....which makes them the semi-reasonable price they should have been to begin with. I picked one up today for $24.50. Mom's happy....pre-teen's happy. Rare moment.
Cue Alice Cooper....."School's Out For Summer!" Yes...summer has begun and my 11-yr-old couldn't be happier! 6th grade was a rough year for her....one of the worst teacher experiences she's ever had, compiled with her weakness for organization - ugh. She's so excited to be done with the school year and looking forward to a "fresh start" next year. And I'M looking forward to her being home!

She needs to earn a ton of money for a class trip to D.C. next summer...so that means manual labor at my ready - yeah!!! And since she's at that social age...already she's planning to go swimming this afternoon. This is fine...BUT...that means the play room needs to be cleaned BEFORE swimming. Wah-ha-ha-ha. =-)

Lauren will absolutely LOVE having her big sister at home now too. Here's to hot days, cold glasses of lemonade, swimming pools, friends and no school. Yeah, summer!

Tuesday, May 29, 2007

Getting our house ready to go on the market is hard work! The house is in great shape, but as with any house, it requires CLEANING (toddler for rent during this process, anyone?), as well as small projects here and there - changing a light fixture, replacing a bulb, touch-up paint, caulk, etc. nothing major. Today was a good day in that I finally got the kitchen clean enough to take a picture of it for the sheet that will eventually go in an info tube on our front lawn. Start the prayers now that I can get the house ready quickly and that it sells even faster! (Sigh)...I will miss this kitchen! Do you know how many crappy kitchens are out there? I've been spoiled with this one.
Lauren LOVES the water...not afraid of it at all. I can't keep her upright in the tub...she wants to "float." Plus I think she likes how things sound when her ears are underwater. Not bad for 21 months I say!

Monday, May 28, 2007

Finally, TiVo got it right! It made a suggestion that actually interested me! Today TiVo recorded the Rachael Ray Show...something I don't normally watch. Today's show provided tips for the perfect picnic basket. It gave a new twist on the fruit kabob and another easy-to-make & pack picnic idea. Thought I'd share. Thanks "Rach."

Frozen Fruit Sticks

Keeping these frozen until you're heading out keeps the fruit cold for your picnic.

ingredients
1 cantaloupe peeled, seeded and cut into bite-size pieces1 honeydew peeled, seeded and cut into bite-size pieces1/2 watermelon, peeled and cut into bite-size pieces1 pineapple, peeled, cored and cut into bite-size pieces1/4 bunch red grapes1/4 bunch green grapes1 package 10-inch wooden skewers


preparation
Thread fruit pieces onto wooden skewers in any order you like. Place in large re-sealable bags or plastic containers and pop them in the freezer until its time to pack your picnic basket.
Yields 12-16 skewers


Antipasto Sticks

ingredients
1/2 pound plain or marinated bocconcini, bite-sized pieces of mozzarella, drained1/3 pound thickly cut, deli-sliced Genoa salami, chopped1 jar pepperoncini peppers1/2 pint cherry tomatoes (mix it up with yellow and red!)1 package 10-inch wooden skewers
preparation
Thread antipasto ingredients onto wooden skewers in any order you like. Pack in re-sealable containers and place in your picnic basket.
Yields Makes 12-16 skewers

Sunday, May 27, 2007

Great teacher gift idea (borrowed from http://heidiswapp.typepad.com/). What a great way to wish your favorite teachers a GREAT summer vacation?!


If you have a water stain on your white ceiling - here's a GREAT tip! Mix 1 part water with 1 part bleach in a spray bottle and spray it LIGHTLY on the stain. Do not get it too wet. Wait a few days - re-spray if necessary. VOILA! Stain gone!

Tuesday, May 15, 2007


His lyrics and sweet voice can make me cry...AND he looks like this - I hate you Faith Hill. But seriously, did you hear his song on the ACM awards tonight? AMAZING, MOVING, BEAUTIFUL, WHERE DO I BUY IT?!@#
A month ago, my eleven-year-old participated in her first-ever vocal solo contest. She prepared a solo (In Italian - another first for her), practiced it for over a month (never in front of us though...too embarrassing!), and sang the piece before a judge. During the actual performance was the first time I had ever heard her sing her solo. It was BEAUTIFUL! I cried...I couldn't help it! I had no idea she could sing like that! At the end of the video below you'll see her reacting to my verklempt Mom moment. ha.

She earned a first-rating from the judge. Here is the performance:

Sunday, May 13, 2007

Mother's Day ROCKS! I woke up this morning to a baby that was awake in her crib - but lying there quietly - as if to not disturb her Mommy on Mother's Day. My pre-teen crawled out of bed and began making breakfast for the family. NICE! And if that weren't enough? I was presented with a Mother's Day card from every member of my family, including those not yet born.



Typical of me, I teared up reading all of the cards. The perfect Mother's Day.....but there's MORE! Next my husband (did I already mention that he is AWESOME?) hands me a gift card to


for: The Spa Pedicure - This therapeutic treatment will supply the nails and cuticles with minerals and trace elements, leaving the feet softened and smoothed. An exfoliation and invigorating massage relieves tired feet and legs from pain and improves their appearance.


And because he thought of everything...he bought a pedicure for Bailey, too!

AND...The Perfect Pregnancy Massage, gentle enough for baby -- No one knows the need for massage better than an expectant mother. Pamper yourself and baby with this gently effective treatment. You will love the relief from the back-ache, sore feet and other physical and emotional stresses of pregnancy. 60 minutes of massage!!!!


And like a true mother, I now feel guilty for this much of a gift...for an extravagence I probably don't deserve. But one thing is for certain - guilt or no guilt - I KNOW I am so blessed to have such a loving family that appreciates me most days...and not just one day out of the year. I am one blessed Mama!

Wednesday, May 09, 2007

Today was Ultrasound day. I was so worried about the baby's health. Maybe because there is so much hype once you hit the magic "35." Funny though - the day before I turned 35, there would have been no extra tests, no long ultrasound, etc. But now I'm the big 3-5 and yikes - lots of precautions! So today was ultrasound #2. The first was at my first appointment to help determine due date mostly. Today was in-depth. It was a 30-minute ultrasound where they looked closely at the brain, the spine, the kidneys, the neck, key bones, etc. At first glance, looks like we have a healthy one!

The thickness of the neck was not consistent with Down Syndrome, the spine appeared closed and correct, the kidneys were identified - looked good, the brain was there and no noted problems, the fluid was right-on, the growth of the baby was great...SHWEW! Because the baby is still small, they couldn't get a real close look at the heart, so I get to do that next month.

We also learned the baby's gender today. And what did we find out, you ask? Well, this "momoftwogirls" is having....a....


















BOY!!!!!!! Yikes!...I can hardly believe it!!!! I have no idea what to do with one of those...Girls - I know...a boy? NO FRIGGIN' IDEA! But we are sooooo excited! So much for privacy, poor little guy - look for the little white arrow in the photo below...pointing at the...well...proof. The ultrasound tech said she was VERY sure it is a boy. I'm still in shock.



Below is a picture of his back/spine. His leg is up above...head to the far right. his...HIS! Sounds so strange to say! Oh my goodness! - I'm going to have a SON! A BOY! Wow...still surreal. Oh - and the smile on Mark's face - PRICELESS! I know he did not wish for a healthy boy any more than he wished for a healthy girl...but seeing the excitement and dreams come across his face - melted my heart. And I can't think of a better person to teach our little guy how to be a good man. Wow. God is so good.


Tuesday, May 08, 2007

A friend of mine recently had her second child. She shared with me her recent revelation - that life was never going to be as easy as it was when there was just one child. This is not what I want to hear. It scares me. Because days are already hard - enjoyable - but hard. I know that physical healing and sleep deprivation and hormonal imbalances all play in to what she's saying at this time....but I can't help it...it scares me.

I need to be reassured that when this new baby comes, that it is going to be ok...that once again I am going to be amazed at my heart's ability to miraculously expand enough to love another child as immeasurabely much as I love my other two.

I know it will suck in the beginning...it always does...no matter how many you have already. Not getting enough sleep, everything hurting, hot flashes, well-intentioned visitors at inopportune times....the whole thing is hard. But when the dust settles...I want to know that it is going to be great. I need to know that my girls are going to embrace this new baby and that we are going to be able to leave the house and function like normal people...eventually.

Tomorrow is our ultrasound. I'm praying the baby is healthy! Maybe we'll get a good shot to determine gender...but mostly - I'm praying the baby is healthy....and that when he or she arrives - that life ISN'T worse than before...but better.
The following information borrowed from http://smalltownfun.squarespace.com/

Helps Us Save Our Ancient Forest! Second Rally and Petition Drive
Walker Johnston Park in Urbandale, Iowa 50322

Just West of Urbandale City Hall
TUESDAY MAY 8th, 5-9pm

Stanbrough Development and the City of Urbandale are planning to destroy the 27 acres of hills and trees of the 200+ year old mature Oak Savanna Forest, located at 142nd & Douglas. It is one of the last old-growth forests in the metro area!! Your action is the only chance to save this unique and precious Iowa resource.

The decision will be made at the City Council meeting on Tuesday, May 8, 7pm.

How can you help?
1) Copy this flyer / petition and give / send to everyone you know… doesn’t matter where they live!

2) Sign the bottom and gather as many signatures as possible (use back if too many)

3) Fax this petition to all of the following: City of Urbandale fax: 278-3905 Fax to Anyone Polk County Conservation Board fax: 323-5354 Who Might Care! KCCI News fax: 244-0202 WHO-TV News fax: 242-3796

4) CALL/EMAIL the City of Urbandale and ask them to save this forest as a city park! Phone: 278.3900 email:cityhall@urbandale.org

5) Meet us at 5pm Tuesday, May 8 at Walker Johnston Park just west of the Urbandale City Hall. Bring your family & friends, signs, musical instruments, cameras and refreshments. We will save this forest if you help the neighbors demonstrate.

6) Attend the Urbandale City Council meeting on Tuesday, May 8, 7pm.

Petition: We the undersigned respectfully demand that the City of Urbandale preserve this ancient forest as a Uniquely Urbandale city park. Any development will destroy this public resource! Name snail/email address Name snail/email address ___________________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________________

Monday, May 07, 2007

Friday night is my favorite! A) I don't have to cook (pizza night); B) Everyone is usually home together and relaxed for the first time all week; C) We aren't worried about our to-do list for the weekend yet; and D) MOVIE NIGHT!


This week I bought a take 'n bake pizza from Presto! Pizza on Merle Hay. If you haven't tried that place - you must. Then I buzzed down to Blockbuster and rented Charlotte's Web, Freedom Writers and DreamGirls. Charlotte's Web was tolerable...but it is hard to mess with a classic book like that...plus my fond memories of the cartoon-version I saw as a kid. Freedom Writers was good - but very trite. How many white girl working with inner-city youth to make a difference movies do we need to see?


But the best - BY FAR - was DreamGirls. Although some PG-13 Content, overall it was GREAT! Our toddler danced and sang throughout the whole thing, and our pre-teen loved it too. We appreciated that they kept it a "musical." Thumbs-Up on this one!